JUDGEMENT.

              JUDGEMENT!

Imagine, walking in the corridoor with your best friend and somebody just passes by.  'SOMEBODY' has some special stories attached to him/her. 

Well,  did you just ponder about your judgment criteria for that particular person? 

I could reach to the conclusion that the judgement criteria becomes the very specific stories clinging to the name.  

In our lifetime,  we all commit mistakes,  mistakes  that were exaggerated and transformed and forced to take the title of 'SINS'.  

I firmly believe in the fact that nobody is wrong, nobody is at fault under these mysterious circumstamces.  It is just the loopholes of these varying aspects of life.
Well, why I can claim this has a reason attached to it,  a very vital one.
You know what, it is excessively simple to blame someone but when its time for getting targetted and literally accepting the blame, the clouds fade.
Whenever,  strong winds blow and the darkness approaches, darkening the already dark world around, we lose hope, lose ourselves.
We drown,  drown in the drowing winds,  not because we are proved wrong but because nobody could reduce the paucity of understanding and stand by us.
That is how the world is.
People are proved wrong by us.
We are proved wrong by them.
Lastly, KARMA RETURNS.


I am writing all this, scribbling all these unprepossessing situations because I have gone through the trauma,  and I have seen the unclear ruling world.

One day, when things commenced turning up against me, I realised the fact that nobody is ever at fault, nobody ever pursues those ugly realities .
And I can opine it only when I could feel it openly, when I could feel my latitude and origin shifting away.

Karma returns. We all indulge in proving the other person at fault and the vicious cycle misinterprates us.

A person,  whatever did , becomes past.
PEEL AWAY TIREDNESS FOR PRESENT.
FOCUS ON FUTURE.
 But,  past is never forgotten either by the suffered sufferer or the surrounding souls.
Society keeps on being judgemental,  judgemental about the deeds we had done,  which may have been realised as wrong by us, or the ones which might have become opportunistic and avail the benefit of a bad time phase.

People change. Time changes.
A different fragrance can be sensed.
Why are people always judged on the basis of who that person was,  HISTORICALLY.
Why can't that person's inner soul be peeked into at a fresh point of time?
Why are people given the title of 'BEING NEGATIVE'?
Why are people looked upon with this criterion of 'MISTAKES'. ?

Why has an answer,  but not any more further solution,  for, this very much prevailing thing would still have its existence.

That person is unknown, but yes, their mistakes have been parcelled out in a sac in the form of Mistakes.

Why is it typically unethical to do so.
Mistakes are exaggerated.
Mistakes do not prove the internal aspect of a person.
Mistakes are short timed disappointments.
Nobody knows as to what the real description is.


It becomes absolutely impossible for us to  determine our faults,  to determine our wrong intensity and direction.
It becomes ruthlessly unthinkable to even determine if the path we chose was right or not.

Well, we accept the position of being erroneous.
We accept it with great struggle,  and we are reminded of it each moment by thr judgemental aspect of society.
This great struggle results in us blaming ourselves always. We commence underestimating our inner kindness,  we set the balls rolling for undervaluing our goodness.

Cease judging somebody by their past.
Their past one day,  had meant everything to them and all of a sudden,  being at the gun point, everything had been massively destroyed.  The destructive weapon had been put to force and in full motion.
Now,  their past makes them feel unvalued and unfutile.
People change. Mistakes change them. Mistakes metamomorphisize all.
Read it, feel it and sense iT.

Karan Kundra in Gumrah says 'No one is a Born criminal'
I say 'No one ever portrays negativities  ,impenetrable successive points of time take that job well enough'

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Not So Fruitful!

            NOT SO FRUITFUL! 

When,  these words swing in, the words 'INDIAN EDUCATION' get magnified and commence spinning and there goes the 'Intensification Session'.

I am sure that each one of us,  particularly during this time period can relate to all this. 

Let me bring in the scenario which brings all these conflicting thoughts.

Just a week left For  Term Exams and we sit there, simply , gazing at the books pages, very white,  yet very blurr and faded. 

Appearances are definitely deceptive.  

Sitting there, simply pondering about nothing at all. Just then an open ended thought dives in, 'HEY,  ARE WE GOING TO GET ADMISSION IN THE BEST COLLEGE?' 

Not getting it over there would definitely eliminate all the enlightenment and that would mean 'ENTIRE DARKNESS'.  

I mean,  why,  capabilities are not judged?  Don't they provide enough incentives? Why are they not considered the scale of measurement?  

Well, the common answer to this building up chain of questions is
'Because Capacity outbeats Capabilities in today's scenario'.

Capacity of fixing everything in brain.
Capacity to pen down all the fixed up aspects.

Its like, like fighting or convincing the whole  world to pursue you what your real interests are and follow the trace line of 'Hobbies'.
Sounds a bit dramatic but reflects Reality.

I have a very significant question to be answered 'Why do we have to pursue science,  Commerce or Humanities,  even if we have to end as being Musicians?'

JACK OF ALL, BUT MASTER OF NONE.
We are literally taught everything from those mountains to Trignometry.
So many topics to be just fed. What happens next?
Nothing happens with an element of No Creativity.

I mean why can't we just not study more than 100's of merits and demerits of different forms of Government Organisations in Business Studies.
Why do we have to do that, as if Government is proving out to be so extraordinary and outstanding for India?

We rely on our 'CHALK AND TALK SYSTEM ' and precisely on the art of 'EARNING MARKS'.

Formulaes have become much more significant and vital Than Concepts.
Something unbearable is the literal enforcement of Theoretical Knowledge.

Art is the practical knowledge of scientific principles. What are we ultimately focusing on.  ART OR MARKS'?
We study something,  write everything in our absurd Answer Sheet and then get away with all the notions.
These days,  every single thing is done for earning marks.
We all tend to forget everything after we are done with our forcible exams
. Well that's not the fault of any student. Its not OUR FAULT.
ITS THE FAULT OF UNDETECTABLE FLAWS IN INDIAN EDUCATION SYSTEM.
They provide us with incentives for earning high ratings of marks. Incentives in the form of the best college.
Our entire life is based on this phase of time. Somebody has extended talents but won't have a secure future just because he doesn't have the capability to fetch marks.

Well,  one Capability could not nullify the effect of the other one. Aren't we told in Physics that 'For Every Action, there is an equal and Opposite Reaction. '
Well,  this worldwide accepted principle couldn't just prove a simple point.

While writing this,  there came an advertisement where a guy in India is able to  study Accounts and Biology and the location was IIN,  Idea Internet, and we are still stuck on the point of Courses Disparities.  When we can't solve this crisis,  how would we just take crucial steps for Regional Disparities.

Well, a great number of students commit suicide annually,  hope no one of us goes through the same.
Time for a change.
BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT THE SOCIETY TO INCORPORATE.
At this level,  Change sounds weird but change in outlook can metamorphosise its role from PASSIVE TO ACTIVE, SOMEDAY SOMETIME SOMEWHERE, it would bring in a change.

I AM SURE THAT IF  SOMEONE IN THE POLITICAL SYSTEM, WHO WOULD STAND FOR A 360 DEGREE TRANSFORMATION,  WOULD UNDOUBTEDLY FETCH MAJORITY OF THE VOTES OF THE TO BE '18' VOTERS.


THE CONCLUSION ENDS WITH PRECISION REQUESTING TO  JUDGE ART AND TALENT AND NOT MARKS.


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First Blog Month

          FIRST BLOG MONTH 

Before commencing,  I would say, 'Mom Dad,  love you for everything. '

Well, I planned to inscribe something more sensitive and heart touching this time, something that would force the gens to have goose bumps, something that would let the cold reality to be more visible and excruciating.

But today's thing covers up one part but leaves the other one,  for its the time for merry making today.
Goose Bumps arise when you freeze,  freeze with some very strong,  vigorous and intense emotions.

Imagine the intensity of these emotions once,  ponder about the time when you experience this. Time period which has a very short life span but also the time span which gives you a great enchantment session,  gives birth to millions of aspirations and most  significantly, brings that MONA LISA GRIN.

There are varying circumstamces for these sessions to take place. But honestly,  I don't get them very often. I won't exactly be typical and opine that I get them whenever I post something over here. That would be a bit inappropriate.
But yes I have a golden incident,  sparkling moment of 290 views.
I remembe,  exactly a month and a day ago, this time,  I was indulged too much in 'OXYMORON: A BOAT IN DROWNING WINDS ' I wasn't tensed exactly,  I wasn't even too happy. I just felt the power of indulgence.

When I completed,  I broadcasted and simply slept, didn't sleep because I required sleep, but I slept because I desired some amount of surprise,  euphoria and high spirits as a consequence.
The next morning I woke up and found out that people have actually aided my process.  Their process took two forms.  First one was 'Appreciation'.
Second one was 'Letting more people know about it'.

Whatever they did is undoubtedly unforgettable and each one had their due share in making more people know about my blog.

My neighbor,  A Chartered Accountant,,  had made my words read,  felt and understood by more than 90 people.

My aunt, who stays just opposite to my place,  in whose arms I had played day and night , then commenced calling me me MATURE.

I remember exactly a month ago, evening time and I had around 12 people around me,  catching glimpses and glances.  I was technically surrounded by people with overwhelmed eyes and overwhelmed emotions.

The CAKE CEREMONIAL DAY,  if I talk about that day's morning,  even I get overwhelmed.
Overwhelmed with the same GOOSE BUMPS vivid emotions I had experienced, then with full main and might.

I keep on talking about ' INTENSIFICATION OF BEAUTIFICATION '
That day I realised what it truly means.
290 views and almost 2000 now,  long way,  a long journey but definitely 290 is the luckiest.

In the end,  I can just say that what I feel whenever I post something is uncomparable to any other feeling I have experienced till date.

What I write becomes a lesson and a blessing for me,  at the same time.
My words teach me,  spin in my head and foster my joviality.

My blog fabricates my world SUBLIME enough for me to stay with A Thousand Pains for the rest of my years of existence.


It means the World to me.


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You are truly beautiful!

        YOU  ARE  BEAUTIFUL! 

You are beautiful in every sense, in every aspect. 

You have a pure heart,  a pure soul and you are truly independent.  

You have an angelic charm,  and you are truly gem of a person. 

Read those legible letters once again. 

Well, I never said '' All of us have the capacity and capability to recognize our 'Strong' facet, our 'Alluring Personality' 

I have a very simple and effortless,  yet a very complicated shloka 'Stay enchanted and never lose my favourite: Mona Lisa Grin ' even if you are,  all by yourself.  ' 

I have two questions,  or lets say I can frame two very effective questions, reflecting the 'Contradiction Ingredient Or Countenance' 

1. Why is this 'So Hard To Follow' shloka being called  very 'Plain Sailing'? 

2. Even If there is a reason to support the  first part,  why is it then being contradictory enough for the contradiction process of my own statement? 

Well, when I say it is very manaegable and Plain  Sailing,  it actually is and the reason is excessively thinkeable and reasonable. I support it by saying that this shloka can be called simple on the basis of the fact that it brings an equation of peace, of Enchantment,  of 

composure and of peace. 

This makes us more elligible to understand ourselves, to carry on the process of 'Self Introspection ' and this definitely lets us know as to who we are, exactly! 

COMPLICATED : According to me,  if this Mantra is highlighted and adopted,  then,  there would be tranquility and happiness all around but then there is lack of happiness around,  evidently. 

A simple line stated above can bring joviality in our lives but when we look around,  its the opposite and people usually feel a bit uncomfortable while getting out of their deep sad zones,  so definitely 'COMPLICATED' is the right word. 

We experience glee,  we laugh,  we smile and we express our felicity.  

I have a question again. 

Just rewind and ponder as to when you are mostly happy? 

I have a point against validity of happiness.  We are joyeous mostly when people are around,  our loved ones. 

The most important part comes. 

People leave and our contentedness leaves too. Simple but true. 

Its very natural to feel loss of positive energy when somebody so close leaves. But then Positivity should not drain for forever. 

It should return, revert and get back to the place where it should be,  in one's mind and heart. 

We are not in a habit to be glad and merriment,  when we are LONELY.  There would be crisis when people who had to stay till death would leave. 

Who would be there with us then?

Ourselves. 

Our Positivity

Our righteous conduct

Our High Spirits

Our blitheful portions

Let me give you an example. 

I was in my class, when one of my classmates came with a very heavy expression on her face.  She was never that close to me or something,  yet I asked her just twice and she opened up fully. Like an open book,  her facts were straight in front of me. 

One of her friends commenced behaving weird with her all of a sudden and she started assuming that everything is taking a backseat in her life. And then I realised that I could identify my past characteristics with her present ones. 

Till what extent can we chase someone else? One day we would get tired,  sit and say ' I don't care. ' 

Why can't you enjoy your own company?  After all,  you have spent more than 16 years with yourself now.

DO NOT DELAY THAT MOMENT' 

Keep repeating. 

'I AM BEAUTIFUL,  I AM TRULY BEAUTIFUL '

Continue with your 'MONA LISA GRIN' always.

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Charismatic tour of 14 years

                   SCHOOL  LIFE 

               The Magnificent  Era.

I was pondering as to what to bring in today and I was utterly confused. 

Just then I read something so beautiful that I  had all my charged emotions right in front of me.

I imagined all those breathtaking moments actually happening in front of me.

One fine day,  we would just be lost in our busy schedules and chained up in varying circumstamces when somebody would randomly find one of our old photographs and ask "Who are these people standing next to you?"

Do one thing, just imagine something of this sort actually taking place,  somebody actually coming up to you and asking you this and you very plainly reply " These were sometimes the most spectacular people of my life,  with whom I have some of the best memories still registered somewhere in the corner of my heart and mind. "

I can imagine myself giving such a marvellous answer. I am using the word MARVELLOUS  for  those cherished times, times which allowed me to have that never ending'MONA  LISA ' grin. We all spend full 14 years of life over there and 14 years is quite a lot of time to recharge your 'SOUVENIRS BAG' and carry it forward for the entire lifetime. 

Last night,  I came accross some pictures of the 'SCRIBBLING DAY ' put up my some of my seniors.

Okay,  when it would be time to leave the renouned walls of our school builiding and we all would be utterly overwhelmed with love and affection for each other. 

If I commence writing about the brilliance and essence of school life,  it would take me years to do so. Not because I do not have words to do so but because emotions are too tender to be spread and unfurled  over here. 

It is beyond my capabilities to analyse each bit of this glittery SCHOOL LIFE. It is beyond all my forces to scribble about all the remarkable and enchanted junctures.

Let us talk about this Scribbling Day.

Would this day have been all about scribbling prepossessing qoutes or was it also about weaving contemporary memories?

Would this day have been just about those 100 pictures or would it also have been about millions of perfect moments captured for entire lifetime? 

Would this day have been all about those innumerable laughter sessions or also about the most beautiful moments, and the mere thought and their rememberance of which would solve our crisis and bring back those MONA LISA grins.

  

Would this day have been just about some promises to stay together FOREVER 

                          OR? 

Well, reading this would have already got shimmer like aspect on lips,  because while reading this,  you guys would be opining and completing the statement  "And we are going to stay together Forever. We are going to fullfill our Promises. "

And now activate your third eye viewing something of a distant future, its about the far off vision time of some mesmerising time.  I call it mesmerising and ravishing,  for,  I see myself fullfilling my promises and spending my life with same spectacular people. 

Well, did you get conflicting thoughts too, revolting thoughts about the people whom were someday given 'The most Important People' title and the title which was someday overthrown? 
Well, they somehow someday made you smile and giggle, so  just get back to them once,  for there should be no regrets,  when you look back at the current point of time from years now making it as clear as crystal :)), 

School life is the best phase,  is the supreme of all odd and happy hours. 

And these odd and happy hours are enlightened by the people in it.  Never ever forget these gens, for they had made one fourth of Your life And vividness more vivid and sparkling. 

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MOVING ON

                 '   MOVE ON  ' 

Well,  let us talk about a very very essential part of our lives - the factor of moving on. 

Well, discontentment must get hidden in some well which vanishes subsequently and never reverts with its not so amusing appearance and content.

MOVING ON:  a very very strong and significant aspect of life.  

Sit down while reading this and go deep in your thoughts somewhere,  dig up your past for the last time and just commence pondering. 

Think about how your life was and how it is. Do not go into intrigate details or any kind of re-construction of the scenario,  just compare and contrast different moments. 

I am sure that your conclusion might be opining 'My life is better now.'

No issues on the point that you have stitched yourseld back and it is just better or rather perfect now. 

Even that is how my life is now. Some months back,  I had to come out of my fits,  and not fake a smile but rather endeavour to construct a new one genuinely. 

Now get back to the process, process odf how you came back to the point of your origin. It was hard.  No. It was as painful as death is. Losing the people whom you imagined to be with you forever is as deadly as death is. 

Let us draw a line  of similiarity between death and life. 

Death: People who were to be with you till eternity leave you digging up hollow spaces.

Life: People leave you while being in front of you. 

Let us list the things what are gone and lost at this stage :

1. Peace

2. Friendships

3. Relationships 

4. Love 

5. Promises

6. Confidence 

7. Life comes to a hault.

8 Loneliness (we gain that)

8. Loss of hope

Etc Etc and Etc.

We drown,  drown more and drown further. Nobody to protect us,  just we can do that for ourselves. 

What would your 'Sulking Capacity' do?

1. Bring back the person? 

2. Bring back your old life?

3. Bring back your confidence?

4. Lessen your empowerment of Overthinking? 

5. Boost up your confidence?

6. Enlighten it up all again?

The unanimous answer is NO.  I am sure you all must be agreeing with it. 

One fine day,  you would start feeling yourself in such a mess, you would realise that the chaotic stage has no end now, you would actually start disliking you and your internal strength would be then drained. That day would be the worst. 

Stitching up a torn cloth and fixing up broken pieces again is next to impossible. 

Wait I said 'NEXT TO IMPOSSIBLE ' and not 'IMPOSSIBLE'

There are people out there who would never even dare to leave you. You just have not discovered them yet. But they do exist and that is when you say 'My life is so much better now.' 

Keep Smiling and wait for nature and God to take their time. 

Someday,  you sit and those souvenirs just flash,  what next? Stop by them and smile because they somehow someday made you happy,  someday got that grin on your face. 

Move on. 

Something sick you find? 

I have a Mantra: THROW AWAY THE SHITTY BAG. ' 

I have taken a few resolutions for 2k15. And I actually follow them,  for I cannot afford to be a victim again. 

1. No Negativity. 

2 Just Positivity. 

3 No assumptions.

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Empowerment of Overthinking.

  Empowerment   of    Overthinking

So,  today, I am going to talk about 'Overshadowness of Overthinking.'

I know people have this habit and who are reading this would quickly associate themselves with me, for I am one of their kind.

Overthinking is like a silent killer. Silent killer of confidence,  Silent Killller of one's own personality. 

It must be vague amd bizarre when I refer it to as 'Silent Killer'.  But I can make it reasonable and clearly understandable.

Overthinking basically refers to a trauma stage wherein people repeatedly think about the same situation and land themselves in ' GUILT  PRISON' 

I have two live examples to justify my statement fully. 

But I guess  one would be so elaborate in its approach that it would suffice and act as a validate for my point. 

A girl,  who now cherishes each moment of her life and lives as if there is no tomorrow,  sometime ago used to land herself in trouble on a daily basis for some or the other reason.

She was in her darkest hours at that time and that time was crucial,  for,  it was based on how well she handles it,  basically her decision making power.

Well, Forever can become a lie and people leave even after their uncountable promises. As far as my diagnosis is correct,  she was suffering from this 'Forever Trauma'.  

A fight, and she could not cease thinking,  her tears running down her cheeks and a wrong decision. 

Yes., Overthinking leads to wrong decisions. Sometimes it is significant to give back people the same or maybe the 'Silent Treatment' but Overthinking gives you emotional impulses to erase everything from the memory and forgive and be together again. 

Wrong decisons,  more chaos. 

That's it (though this is something very big)?  

No. That's just the commencement. 

Overthinking - lack of decision making power - chaotic decisions - trouble - you are proven guilty. 

You do not take correct decisions in this game and you are proven guilty, maybe you were never wrong for the things you had done in the past,  but you are,for the recent thing. 

And remember,  that's the Summing up Part.

Later on,  the girl moved on,  had a new life,  metamorphosised by her best friend.

But whatever she did,  she used to be very very self cautious so that it does not turn out to be her fault once again.

A wrong turn,  for example,  a close friend not talking to her or behaving absurdly,  and she feels the drained confidence and starts self interrogation to check If she is right or wrong. 

Yes,  that was Me. This was one of my chapters.

I thank my best friend,  rather my soul sister and my mom for forcing me to cease using this tool of Overthinking and I am an amazing person now. 

Though I still realise this facet in me sometimes,  but less than before and moreover,  I am endeavouring to keep a great y command over it so that the sobriquet of 'Gloom Girl' does not stick to me. 

I have justified my point. 

I brought in this topic,  because when I started with my book and I was utterly confused,. I remember an old friend (Forever Trauma one) saying ' Write what you feel. Do not fake it.' 

I mentioned about putting up a topic quite interesting and Conflicting in my last post  but some recording part is left for the same.  So next or maybe next to next time. 

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